There is an incredible
deception which has taken place in the mind of almost every one of
us. Any of us who have made the callous mistake of not forgiving
someone we've known and loved.
Most of you out there
would have spoken this lie to yourself, and acted as though it were
true. Which by definition is delusional and insane. Yet you can
observe this many times in life within people around you, and
yourself.
The lie is a bend in the
perception of time. The subtle drift of events in the past, flowing
forwards or back. Depending upon our emotions towards it. With non
forgiveness the distant and recent past become almost synonymous with
each other.
If any one out there know
anyone whom has problems with a close family friend or relative, you
may observe this. The two people have fallen out, and often recount
stories of how they fell out. Why they fell out. A conversation not
only covering all of the hypothetical ways in which this breakdown
could have been avoided but also all the lists of past wrongs through
which justification is possible, As non forgiveness continues, the
reason dissolves from being one single concise reason and spreads out
into various factors. Over time a person is able to say phrases like
'I never liked so and so that much anyway' and suchlike. Petty
arguments from the past, which for the most part had been forgiven
and forgotten until this point. Every day nuances become pillars of
justice as to why one shouldn't spend too much time with so and so.
What so ans so did which was so wrong, so terrible so unforgivable.
Within the third eye of
the unforgiving person a dark gleam covers the person on whom they're
troubles rest. A descending spiral of justification and bitterness.
Perceiving them through a veil of their own making. Projecting all
manners of negative thoughts onto a person. Away from the self and
onto another and observing it. Calling it bad, dangerous,
unforgivable.
Forgive them, for they are
your only hope to forgive yourself.
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